Boys Speak Out

The guys also have stuff to say.

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  1. Archie
    Oct 18, 2010 @ 13:16:30

    Well, as much as all guys are not the same, we all have different out looks when it comes to dating. From my own point of view i will say the guys are representing, taking into consideration the amount of school loads, church callings and a job. we still ask the ladies out on dates. A guy would ask you out on a date if he is attracted to you, or maybe simply to be a friend, which is rare to find. So if your not asked out on a date, don’t blame us, the pool is large

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    • Juliet
      Dec 14, 2010 @ 01:21:16

      You are right… the pool is large. How does a girl know if a guy is interested in more than friendship? Lets say they are already friends and she becomes interested in more that just that, should she tell him? She may think he is sending mixed signals, but I’m wondering if he is just not that into her, what do you think?

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  2. BYU-Idaho Guy
    Oct 18, 2010 @ 17:46:52

    Well for me I am in the position of taking school very seriously. College is not a big party for me. I am a junior and I admitt some guys are only here to do party and date, but the majority are here to get an education. The problem is the majority of girls are here to find a man. I know I might get some hate responses to this, but it is what I have found. I want a girl who has the same mind set as I do. And frankly I haven’t found this, thus why I am a loser and still single haha.
    Also most guys just don’t want to waste the money on taking a girl he is unsure about out on a date. It is a sad principle, but most guys aren’t loaded and even simple things add up. Most guys I know will not date a girl until he knows it is worth it, that is the problem with BYU-I guys don’t date and then think, they think and then talk themselves out of dating the girl.

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    • Mollie
      Dec 09, 2010 @ 22:49:25

      I agree BYU-Idaho guy above, a lot of girls I’ve been around are just here to get married. As one of the girls who takes her education very seriously I feel I intimidate a lot of guys! I still go on plenty of dates but I don’t really think guys are interested in girls who want any semblance of a career. It is possible to do that and motherhood! Guys just go for the homemakers. Boo! 😀

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    • Abbee Lloyd
      Dec 09, 2010 @ 22:57:28

      I completely agree with you BYU-Idaho guy, alot of the girls up here have forgotten how to support themselves or even look out for their personal interests because they think they need a husband to fulfill all of those voids for them. Wrong. Girls need to get a clue and realize that doing something with their own lives isn’t bad.

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  3. Preston
    Dec 09, 2010 @ 21:36:16

    I think that alot of guys are a little reluctant to go out on a date with a girl they are slightly interested in because girls over react and think that the guy has a huge crush on them. If he still kinda likes her and asks her on a second date, if she is not at all interested, she will still say yes and lead him on, and sometimes even call him a “stalker” because he won’t “take a clue”. A date is not that big of a deal, and if you are going to lead him on, don’t call him a stalker at least.

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    • DT
      Dec 09, 2010 @ 23:51:24

      It funny how some girls are talking about guys growing up. Girls need to know what it means to say “GROW UP” the same person who says guys should grow up is the same one who does not know how to behave in public, i will ask her out if she will grow up and learn that first. Also if you don’t get asked out don’t worry guys we can’t like all the girls on campus because they are the same people who will call you “PLAYER” let them take it like they saying NO when guys ask them out. Some girls are just funny and they act Hippo,they guys are plain outside so that they can become perfect someday but the girls are just….. something we can’t even compare them to, they are more than betrayers. when they are in the light they are like fluorescent bulb but when they get in the dark they are more than vampires. It will be good if they will help the guys who is not to their standard and they will appreciate that a lot i think. Now you can say what you want.

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  4. Brett Hansen
    Dec 10, 2010 @ 15:37:57

    A few basic principles, Boys can sweep any girl off their feet they just need the right broom!!!

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  5. Travis Standley
    Dec 10, 2010 @ 15:44:11

    The hype about dating and marriage gets pretty thick here in Rexburg. The reason is a good one: its important!
    I am newly married and when people ask me how married life is I tell them, “It’s the way to be!” It’s very healthy and correct among the challenges.

    Guys, go on dates! It doesn’t mean get married on Friday. It means cultivate relationships learn to see positive characteristics in others. Display who you are. Improve yourself and success in dating and courtship will flow!

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