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Girl Needs Advice!!

Walking from the Taylor to the Smith building this morning and passing through the MC, i saw a friend sharing a table with a really pretty girl. I stopped by to say “hi” and she soon asked for my opinion on an issue she had.

She said there was a guy in one of her classes who seemed like he liked her and she taught he was “Abercombie model cute”. She said she’d come into class early, drop her bag on a seat and go to the rest room and when he came in, he would always sit by whichever chair her bag was at. This had happened for three weeks consecutively. She thinks he was doing that deliberately to sit near her because he would start conversations soon after she gets back and whisper comments on whatever the professor was saying in class to her. She said he was distracting sometimes and simply smiled at his comments even when she never really did hear what he said. He always hurriedly leaves after every class and she gets no time to say anything to him. She likes him but isn’t sure what to do.

She said she had stalked him on Facebook and BYU-I’s “stalker net” to know where he lives and knows a few guys from her ward from back home who live at his apartment but wasnt sure what step to take next or how much he was into her, if he was at all.

I was in a hurry to go to class so I didn’t really have much to say because I couldn’t give her any advice without first asking some questions. What would you tell her?

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8 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Mimi
    Oct 18, 2010 @ 10:59:04

    I would say, hang out. Invite him to the infamous “hangout” parties we all do; watch a movie with your roommates and friends and invite him; that’s always a great non-committal way to get to know someone. And if he REALLY is interested, after feeling comfortable with you, he’ll ask you out.

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    • Amanda
      Dec 10, 2010 @ 13:17:50

      I agree. I think that if he hasn’t asked her out yet and they talk that much, then she needs to take the first step to show she’s interested. She should invite him to come over for dinner or watch a movie. Just remember to keep it casual so she doesn’t freak him out!

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      • Moderator
        Dec 10, 2010 @ 13:26:06

        Awesome, thanks

  2. myidate
    Oct 18, 2010 @ 11:19:08

    Mimi, That was awesome.
    My advice:
    Find a common interest/hobby between you and him. Then, start talking to them about it. This usually can start a conversation and keep it threading into other conversations.
    Have an equal part in the convo.
    Be the listener, and the speaker.
    Eventually, after talking to him for awhile, you’ll be able to start a convo about just about everything.

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  3. Nah-ah
    Dec 03, 2010 @ 14:46:05

    well if he really likes her, wouldnt he ask for her number? she could ask him where he’s off to next. and where ever it is should could be like” oh well, im headin that way too” or she could just tell him to ask her out..

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    • myidate
      Dec 03, 2010 @ 16:57:23

      Awesome advice. Thanks

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  4. Amanda
    Dec 09, 2010 @ 22:01:07

    This is super funny! Me and my roommate were dying with laughter because we had just been talking about things boys do that bug us

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  5. Audrey
    Dec 09, 2010 @ 22:33:51

    Exceptional. Thank you.

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